Following is the message that I sent to my friend to help her grow in love. Putting the text as quoted to her.
Love is strange thing. True love often occurs between two people of similar interests and complimentary thinking. However, the intensity of love never occurs at the same time from both side. It's just like solar eclipse when all three moon, sun and earth come in a straight line only at a particular time of the year. In this case, what're the suggestions for getting equal amount of love from the one your heart demands? Following are the tired and tested ways:
1) Control: control your untimely love for someone special and wait for the opportune time when other would feel the same sense of urgency.
2) Channelizing your love in creative and constructive work.
3) finding a good friend for distraction from your love. Many say that books are best friends during these times. Start reading good literatures, romance if you like. And start writing your feelings as sonnets or memoir.
